Stand by her

Every three minutes in the United States, a woman is told she has breast cancer. That translates into one in every eight American women -- or over 184,000 women in 2008. There are thousands of books, Web sites, and support groups available to help these women deal with every aspect of this devastating disease. But for men, there was really nothing at all for them to turn to, left to figure out how to help their wife, mother, sister, daughter, aunt, cousin, colleague, or friend -- and how to deal with their own fears and frustrations -- on their own. John W. Anderson had not four women in his…